Modeling Prayer
by Jim ~ March 12th, 2007. Tags: ministry, prayer.If you do a Pastoral Prayer every Sunday after awhile you eventually realize that you are stuck in a bit of a rut. In order to break out of that rut and to start to take seriously the Pastor’s role in teaching people to pray, I’ve begun using some models for my prayer. I teach them to my congregation and then pray them by example.
In the past I’ve used the Lord’s Prayer in this way going through it phrase by phrase and saying prayers along the lines of that phrase. This week I used the “Five Finger Prayer.” In this prayer, we pray using the:
1. Thumb - this is the finger closest to you, so we pray for those who are closest to us, such as our mother, father, brothers, sisters, and grandparents.
2. Index finger — This is our pointing finger, so we pray for those who point the way for us, such as parents, teachers, pastors, policemen, bus drivers, crossing guards, and so on.
3. Middle finger - this is the biggest finger of all, so we pray for those with big responsibilities, such as our president, government leaders, and others who govern us.
4. Fourth finger – this is the weakest of all our fingers, so we pray for those who are weak, such as those who are sick, those who are sad and alone, those who are in hospitals and rest homes, and those who are poor and starving and forgotten by others.
5. Little pinky — this is the little finger, and it comes last. The Bible tells us we ought to put others ahead of ourselves, so we ought to pray for others first and then pray for ourselves.
I noticed that a number of people followed along as I taught the prayer and a few said after the service that they would remember it in their prayer time.
March 12th, 2007 at 5:52 pm
So God wants me to give the middle finger to the President? Awesome!
March 12th, 2007 at 7:56 pm
Cool! I’m using this next week at my lenten series on prayer. Any other suggestions!?
March 12th, 2007 at 8:05 pm
I taught this to my kids since they were tiny…every night at bedtime. It is an easy way to make sure you get “everyone”
March 19th, 2007 at 9:44 pm
[...] We had three stations: the five-finger prayer, where we had people use crayons to outline their hands and then write over each finger the prayers suggested for that digit; prayer books and the daily office, to explore using a set liturgy or the words of others in our prayer life, and how to make that our own; and a form of the lectio divina as a way of seeing readings scripture as prayer, and even some discussion of doing that in groups. For the latter two, I suggested that the use of the daily lectionary might be helpful to some (see the PCUSA page on the daily lectionary and related devotional materials, or just the daily lectionary texts themselves.) [...]
March 21st, 2007 at 1:02 pm
Great idea. I know exactly what it means to ‘get stuck in a rut.’ Now, any ideas for the prayer of dedication after the offering?
March 21st, 2007 at 6:53 pm
Tom, We generally do a unison prayer, different every sunday. Many of them come from The Worship Sourcebook, a resource I use very often!
April 14th, 2008 at 11:17 am
[...] with this more. In the past I have prayed model prayers, for instance I’ve used the five finger prayer and the Lord’s prayer as an outline and then prayed for specific things within that [...]
June 3rd, 2008 at 7:04 pm
Tom, hilarious!
I will start giving this a try once a week. I sometimes feel myself getting into a prayer rut, praying almost the same thing every night.
Thanks